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Dating a fairly awesome fella. Figuring what is important in a relationship and what I can live without. Very interesting as I get older my views are becoming less Black and White and a bit more abstract which is a new experience. Do you like who you are? Why? Been told I am not your typical SF gay man, I have a little belly and kinda furry and love my life and who I am and where I am going. I am a total GOOFY ROMANTIC! Two ADULTS make the best partnership ....Deep friendship+Deep honesty+Deep feelings+Deep passion =Real intimacy. Thanks to PhilJ pointing out in a very judge mental way that I did not re-edit this part of my profile. There will always be someone who finds fault in others. May they instead find peace somewhere in their lives. CAN NOT EMPHASIZE ENOUGH THE IMPORTANCE OF MANNERS, WE ARE ALL HUMAN BEINGS WHO DESIRE RESPECT AND INTIMACY. a small insight... one of my favorite quotes is..."One of these days someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else..." These are things that I treasure the most: Feeling my partner’s presence no matter where he is in our home Waking through the night and feeling him there beside me Waking in the morning and seeing him there Slippers beside the bed or the door Robes, coffee and the paper over Saturday and Sunday breakfast Seeing socks, t-shirts and underwear lying around that aren't mine Watching him shave A partners scent on me, in his clothes or our bed The spontaneity of making love without uttering a word The hair on his body brushing against me, setting me on fire Communicating without uttering a word the heat and romance of eye to eye gazes, touch, long soft kisses, whispering in his ear Watching him think or work on something His look when he wears reading glasses Holding his hand His smile that only I get Feeling me heart leap when my partner walked into the room Feeding him and packing his lunch Surprising him with gifts and flowers, silly or serious A Man with a spine that can be honest even when it hurts, and Trust, though I haven't experienced much of that yet. I know it is coming in the next partner Saying or hearing "I Love You" and being able to believe it Hey guys thought I would update my profile and see if it catches any ones attention. I tend to be more of a nester & not much of a scenester tend to like to hang outside, love day trips and anything to do with the ocean. Not much of a drinker and actually pretty vanilla, my private pic may suggest something different but it is just a cool picture of me. Be well | |||||||||||||||||