Gay dude wanting more!!!! someone who can laugh at themselves.....can you? I can.
Figuring out what is important to me in a relationship and what I can live without.
Very interesting as I get older my views are becoming less Black and White and a bit more abstract which is a new experience.
Do you like who you are? Why?
Been told I am not your typical SF gay man, I have a little belly and kinda furry and enjoy my life and who I am.
HIV+ almost 10yrs and have made peace with it, if you are interested in pursuing something sexually be aware this will not be changing anytime soon.
Enjoying the journey and where I am going, realizing there is something very sexy about a man who realizes it is the differences or what we may consider personal flaws (i.e.; ears, nose or an imperfect smile) that make us sexy.
I am a total GOOFY ROMANTIC!
Two ADULTS make the best partnership ....Deep friendship+Deep honesty+Deep feelings+Deep passion =Real intimacy.
CAN NOT EMPHASIZE ENOUGH THE IMPORTANCE OF MANNERS, WE ARE ALL HUMAN BEINGS WHO DESIRE RESPECT AND INTIMACY.
a small insight...
one of my favorite quotes is..."One of these days
someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out
with anyone else..."
These are things that I treasure the most:
Feeling my partnerís presence no matter where he is in our home
Waking through the night and feeling him there beside me
Waking in the morning and seeing him there
Slippers beside the bed or the door
Robes, coffee and the paper over Saturday and Sunday breakfast
Seeing socks, t-shirts and underwear lying around that aren't mine
Watching him shave
A partners scent on me, in his clothes or our bed
The spontaneity of making love without uttering a word
The hair on his body brushing against me, setting me on fire
Communicating without uttering a word
the heat and romance of eye to eye gazes, touch, long soft kisses, whispering in his ear
Watching him think or work on something
His look when he wears reading glasses
Holding his hand
His smile that only I get
Feeling me heart leap when my partner walked into the room
Feeding him and packing his lunch
Surprising him with gifts and flowers, silly or serious
A Man with a spine that can be honest even when it hurts, and
Trust, though I haven't experienced much of that yet. I know it is coming in the next partner
Saying or hearing "I Love You" and being able to believe it
I tend to be more of a nester & not much of a scenester tend to like to hang outside, love day trips. Anything around water