Dating a fairly awesome fella. Figuring what is important in a relationship and what I can live without.
Very interesting as I get older my views are becoming less Black and White and a bit more abstract which is a new experience.
Do you like who you are? Why?
Been told I am not your typical SF gay man, I have a little belly and kinda furry and love my life and who I am and where I am going.
I am a total GOOFY ROMANTIC!
Two ADULTS make the best partnership ....Deep friendship+Deep honesty+Deep feelings+Deep passion =Real intimacy.
Thanks to PhilJ pointing out in a very judge mental way that I did not re-edit this part of my profile. There will always be someone who finds fault in others. May they instead find peace somewhere in their lives.
CAN NOT EMPHASIZE ENOUGH THE IMPORTANCE OF MANNERS, WE ARE ALL HUMAN BEINGS WHO DESIRE RESPECT AND INTIMACY.
a small insight...
one of my favorite quotes is..."One of these days
someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out
with anyone else..."
These are things that I treasure the most:
Feeling my partnerís presence no matter where he is in our home
Waking through the night and feeling him there beside me
Waking in the morning and seeing him there
Slippers beside the bed or the door
Robes, coffee and the paper over Saturday and Sunday breakfast
Seeing socks, t-shirts and underwear lying around that aren't mine
Watching him shave
A partners scent on me, in his clothes or our bed
The spontaneity of making love without uttering a word
The hair on his body brushing against me, setting me on fire
Communicating without uttering a word
the heat and romance of eye to eye gazes, touch, long soft kisses, whispering in his ear
Watching him think or work on something
His look when he wears reading glasses
Holding his hand
His smile that only I get
Feeling me heart leap when my partner walked into the room
Feeding him and packing his lunch
Surprising him with gifts and flowers, silly or serious
A Man with a spine that can be honest even when it hurts, and
Trust, though I haven't experienced much of that yet. I know it is coming in the next partner
Saying or hearing "I Love You" and being able to believe it
Hey guys thought I would update my profile and see if it catches any ones attention.
I tend to be more of a nester & not much of a scenester tend to like to hang outside, love day trips and
anything to do with the ocean. Not much of a drinker and actually pretty vanilla,
my private pic may suggest something different but it is just a cool picture of me.