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maybe i haven't been direct enough about this in the past. but, in the interest of presenting a cohesive identity, let me share: I am POZ. i have been hiv+ since i was 27. if you're looking for the perfect guy (or someone who'll tell you anything you may want to hear) i am not your man. happy to practice safe sex with neg guys. i am healthy and have been undetectable for a long time. anyway... realize dudesnude is international, but MAINLY INTERESTED IN NEW YORK DUDES...not here for penpals...appreciate the messages, but don't need compliments 24/7. maybe you could attempt to say something meaningful/ real. if my inbox is full feel free to email me... if you do email me, it helps to include a picture, screenname and/or reminder if we've been in touch. if i'm out of touch, don't take it personally. writing back to everybody would be a full-time job. thought i'd put some FAQs on here to fast-track this process: Q. brandon, i'm coming to town and would really like to have sex with you. A. while i'm not opposed to fucking tourists, generally don't plan my hookups weeks or months in advance. hit me up when you're here and we'll see... Q. brandon, i love your hairy butt. A. uh, thanks, yea guys seem to enjoy it. Q. hey brandon, my butt is hairier than yours. A. perhaps you should have screennamed yourself hairybutt before i did...? can i taste it? Q. brandon, aren't there some videos of u? aren't u a pornstar? A. don't think of myself as no "pornstar". it's a grandiosity, and i strive to be down-to-earth. shot about 50 scenes for various companies, (a few of which are even good). my best porn scene might be in joe gage's closed set: oral report. (damn! even i can admit that's pretty fucking good.) alas, porn bores me. i live in the real world. Q. brandon, i've written you and haven't heard back. A. i'm sure you're an awesome stud, but It's likely i'm in my usual state of preoccupation/distraction. if i don't respond, it doesn't mean i'm not interested. tho sometimes we all need the reminder: no answer IS your answer. Q. brandon, i absolutely must have you. how can we guarantee it? A. have been known to be a working boy and can easily be found on other sites for professional activities. that's about all i can say here Q. where are you in brooklyn? A. live brooklyn bushwick/ bed stuy. have a nice playspace & a sling & enjoy hosting. enjoy creating an ambience for fucking: candlelight, chilled-out music, weed, etc. it's more likely to happen between us if you put forth an effort by coming to me. Q. what are you into? A. tend to like piggy action & tend to filter out the pool of potential sex partners based on this criteria. but not always. and if there's something about you that strikes me, i'll probably be willing to bend over backwards in pleasing you. Q. what attracts you? A. oftentimes it's a sense of innocence or not being jaded. goodness, intelligence and a kind heart go a long way to making someone attractive...or just a meaty ass and big dick. i've had great sex with ugly guys and bad sex with the beautiful... so learned to be open-minded. Q. what do you want ultimately? A. LOVE. love love love love love. Q. who would you find this with? A. he would be smart, he would have some kind of viable life and/or future planned. he would not be addicted. he would have to appreciate cinema, or at least tolerate my showing him marilyn or hitchcock occasionally. he would have to have some kind of inner spiritual life, or at least faith in something. we'd have to be sexually attracted to each other. he'd have to be versatile (at least occasionally). someone i could grow with. we 'd have to have some shared interests and/or background. he'd have to be at least somewhat open-minded and adventurous sexually. he would have to care about the world/planet. he would have to have some motivation or purposeful goal. hmmmm...Ok, the rest of my profile: realize the pics may make me look like an insane powerbottom. in reality, i'm versatile...suckin ass is what i love best in all of life. TURN OFFS total tops, virgins, bad hygiene, tobacco smokers, obesity, wearing clothes, guys already partnered, dudes on the down-low/closeted, those who think "straight-acting" is a virtue, faceless profiles, stalkers, cologne, tina, one-word messages, profiles marked always, tramp stamps, blown-out assholes, being called papi TURN ONS insatiable bottoms, girly bois, twinks, guys around my age, good skin, body hair, beards, bald heads, natural smells, exhibitionsm, intelligence, minimalism (less is more), architecture, mutual ass sucks, redheads, jewish guys, those capable of speaking/writing proper English, pot smokers, tight assholes (hairy or smooth), strong poppers, cum, being called sir when i'm not on dudesnude (and sometimes when i am!) i go to nursing school (yay!) in downtown manhattan, the gym on 14th street, hang out at the film forum...have done escorting/porn, love biking around the city, i own a turtle. OBSESSED WITH OLD MOVIES. diehard cinemaphile. i'm a libra (with leo rising.) personality type INTJ (rational mastermind). always interested in chilled dudes to see what's up.... brandon | ||||||||||||||