I am a proud doggie daddy of a six year old well-behaved French Bulldog. I like to read books and take hot salt bubble baths in candle light. I like to listen to classical music while I work. I love to wear sweatpants, pajamas, or gym shorts most of the time since I work at home and for myself. I am very passionate about creating art and music. I switch gears often, but I am currently and primarily focused on my drawings. Please feel free to check out my work on my website and social media.
I am not into hook-ups or one night stands with visitors from out of town. There are plenty of other guys here in West Hollywood who will drop their load in anything with a hole, and I'm just not into it! I prefer to preserve my sanity and my temple for someone who is not addicted to awkward, dysfunctional, and unhealthy sexual encounters. I am happy to meet up for some real fun like playing basketball or light-up frisbee at night in the park, indoor rock climbing, chatting over almond lattes, counting the stars in the sky, playing with an ouija board or a game that involves stripping, or even going to a nude beach, etc... Something that allows me to feel like I am being treated like a real human being with feelings. I feel completely comfortable with sex, nudity, and my body, but I feel uncomfortable around someone who tries to use sex with me as a crutch while he ignores his emotional block.
It is important to me that the guy I like (and who likes me back) is either versatile or a top, and educated about HIV. I am HIV+ and undetectable. I like a guy who is classy and knows how to be a gentleman, yet also likes to laugh and have a good time. I will not chat with a little piggy who has a problem keeping his potty mouth in check. I do not want to know about what a guy would do to my body with his tongue, especially if we have not even met for me to verify the current status of his oral hygiene! I would much rather know where a guy wants to go to dinner on our first date, what his passion is in life, if he sleeps naked or not, or what his spooning preference is. I do not like it when a guy gets sloppy with his words that his penis put in his head, and spews them all out in a message to me as if to assume that I will undoubtedly be attracted to him and not be in the middle of eating lunch or dinner - gross!
I know that's a lot of information and it may seem weird for me to say this, but be yourself! Don't pretend to be a gentleman if you are not one. Just please don't take it personally if you happen to be a total s**t pig and we are not a match and I ignore your message or block your profile. In return I will try not to take whatever you show or say to me personally.